My mother is in her 90s, and has seen her share of ICUs and CCUs. A living example of the saying, ‘what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger”, she emerges from her hospital visits all ready to tackle life again. In ‘98, she had a massive cerebral aneurysm, 5% survival chance. There was an operation, the brain surgeon said, but he admitted that if it were his mom, and she was that old, he would think twice. If she didn’t have the surgery, another aneurysm would be inevitable, and most certainly would be fatal. We didn’t choose surgery, and she got better.
Last night, that inevitability occurred. But, unlike the first, the bleeding was minimal. However, by the time my mom got to emergency, she was declared ‘comatose’ by two doctors.
In some part of her assaulted brain, she must have heard them , and thought to herself, ‘comatose, my ass’.
This afternoon, they removed her oxygen. All her vital signs are very strong (so different from last year, but that’s another story), and when the nurse checked her eyes, she asked, ‘Has your mom had eye surgery before? I see a kind of light in them that makes me suspect so.”
No, I said, but she frequently has a twinkle.
Tonight, as I was getting ready to leave, a guitarist set up right outside her room, and began softly playing ‘Gloria’.
Yes. Yes, indeed.